The famous line we hear when we watch those talk shows like Mary when the young troubled teen girls walk to their seats, and yell those words at the crown of people boo-ing. It's funny how we don't know them personally, but of course who better to know them than the mother that reveals who they are, and yes at that point, we know they are trouble teens. However that's not the case for everyone. Sometimes you really don't know them. However whatever you learn is what you base your judgement by.
I hate when people say not to judge. EVERYONE JUDGES! I'm pretty sure that my last blog caused people to immediately judge me. That I'm a bitch or maybe I don't know what the hell I'm talking about. Ok so I may have not been in a physically abusive relationship, but I was on the verge of getting in a mentally abusive relationship, and I immediately thought enough is enough. Now I had lowe self esteem, I felt like I couldn't find anyone, but I do know I DON'T DESERVE TO BE TREATED LIKE THIS!!! So before you tell me not to judge...maybe you shouldn't either...right?
See yes i do judge, and I won't deny it. Just because I am, it doesn't mean I'm rude about it. Unless I am truly frustrated. I like to clarify that with my last blog, I don't literally mean all women deserve it, but I'm so frustrated that some are capable of leaving. Many said the positive words, and still they stay. I even get more upset when kids are involved. It's like WOMEN VICTIM THIS..WOMEN VICTIM THAT. WTF!?!?! What about the kids being the victim? What about these women not thinking like overprotective mothers and saying "FUCK THIS..MY KID IS NUMBER ONE". When your a mother..your kid is number one. PERIOD!
So think I'm a bitch of thinking of the child...THAN I'M A BITCH!
Sometimes judigng is a good thing, and don't completely cross out judging. It could help you. When I hung out with my best friend Jenny a few years ago and she was about to drop me off. Before she did I ran into a friend from highschool Chris. I know this guy isn't the greatest guy, but I talked to him, just to say hi. He had a friend with him. I knew these guys are not to be trusted. I don't know much, but I hear things, and I see how they are. I can't help but feel thsi way. So I did judge. Well thank God I did, cause I was careful, but my friend Jenny didn't. She let one of Chris's friend sit in the car with her, and what happened? He stole 5 hundred dollars from her purse when she didnt' pay attention.
So it's ok to judge, but not to a point where your not open to learn who the person is. I do learn who a person is even after I have these judgements in my thoughts.
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